Loose your trust
نوامبر 7, 2009
Loose your trust
nothing is stable about me… one day I will waste myself and finish this foggy life, this impermanence is ruining my brain.
God! give me a hand… I’ve got to control myself… the way is too long.
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You are not alone. I often feel unstable, too. Self-control is difficult during the unstable moments. It takes practice.
The most important thing is to be gentle with yourself, and to love yourself as much as you would love a dear friend.
yes! thanks for you advise, i guess it really works, but self-control is not so easy when you don’t have any imagination about future
actually i’ve lost my goal in life and this is what i am suffering from.
سلام خوبید؟منم خیلی به دنیای پس از مرگ فکر می کنم
از اونجایی که نمی تونم بپذیرم که آخرت به شکل جهنم و بهشت وجود داره یا اینکه هیچ چیز وجود نداره و فنا می شیم به تناسخ اعتقاد دارم.ما اینقدر به دنیا می آیم تا کامل بشیم.اماچیزی که برای ما زنده ها می مونه غم رفتنه مرده هاس.دوست من خود کشی کرد .دلم خیلی براش تنگ شده.امیدوارم اینبار بفهمه چرا به دنیا می آد و باید چی کا کنه.
من به زندگی بعد از مرگ عقیده ندارم
فکر میکنم خیلی مشکله که باور کنم با مردن یک انسان همه چیز در مورد اون، تو یک لحظه قطع میشه و از بین میره، ولی خوب، چیزهای زیادی تو زندگی هست که واقعیه و باورش سخته!
ممنون که این بحث رو اینجا ادامه دادید…
سلام
چه طرح قشنگی…بازم کار خودته؟ ای ول
اینگیلیش و زبون بلبل و خلاصه این قضایا…
پیش ما بیا
مگه میشه بعد از مرگ همه چیز تموم بشه؟
پس هدف این زندگی چی می شه.نمی دونم ولی احساس می کنم شبیه نیهیلیستا حرف می زنید.ما از یه انرژی قوی زاده شدیم به همونم بعد از کامل شدن بر می گردیم .باید خدا شیم تا برگردیم.
نمیدونم، من اطلاعات فلسفی خیلی کمی دارم، فقط گاهی احساس میکنم در فضایی به اسم عالم، با شتاب بسیار زیاد پرتاب شدم، طوری که اصلا مشخص نیست چه نقشی دارم و کجای این عالم هستم. شما هم اگر مدت زیادی مثل من به صورت معلق باقی بمونی، متوجه میشی که در مجموع هیچ چیزی دارای اصالت نیست و همه پدیده هایی که وجود دارند قراردادی و نسبی هستن و در واقع چیزی به اسم “هدف” وجود نداره.
تازه با مرگ همه چیز درست و حسابی شروع میشه !
خیلی حرف دارم !
اما الان نای نوشتن ندارم !
به وقتش برات می گم !
آره خوب، تاریکی شروع میشه!
ممنون از کامنت
hmmmm… i’m thinking about ‘loosing trust’… and how different it can be from ‘losing trust’… control is the the key word here… control always leads to rebel… control ruins trust… control kills the soul… just love people (including yourself) the way they are, as Sophia mentioned… how? by understanding… when you start understanding yourself and others, you can love them… and how you can understand? by listening… not controling… by dialogs not monologs… by sharing not dictating
and set small goals for yourself each day… things that are easily attainable… then you can trust yourself more to set bigger goals… it’s so frustrating to choose big goals right at the beginning… especially with these terrible conditions we have in our country… and just remember Mohammad that you are not alone… just when we think we are alone in a so-an-so condition, we think of putting an end to everything… keep in touch with others to see how other souls might feel like you… then you start helping them… saving them… loving them… just by saving others you can save yourelf… peace and love to you my dear young friend
ps
one suggestion… visit Sophia’s blogs frequently… the positive attitude she’s spreading is really healing
I don’t know how i can response such a great guidance for my life. actually, when i read this
I felt new doors are being opened to me. we can’t judge people when we dont know much about them and there is a big space between us. first, we should overcome this space.
however i think we can’t listen to people and love them with closed eyes. there should be a reason, otherwise, our feelings would be ruined and our soul would be wounded some day
…
for now, I am at the end of a semi-big goal, I am graduated and I’m getting ready to go to military service.
but first I should go and and see some friends, I think it would make me feel better.
thanks for what ever you said, it was nothing but a kindly favor from a friend, and you know, friendship is my greatest interest in the world
and
better
not to omit
just to have some modifications in the next step
this way you can see how you evlove
your new post was fine… it was a truthful account of your thoughts… why did you omit it
?
D:
That is very kind of Human Being to say that. Thank you.
M.H. – Not having any goals leads to serious depression. I know this because it’s a road I’ve been down before. Setting small goals will help. They don’t have to be big life-changing goals, just small goals, like creating new pieces of art, taking a walk regularly, learning how to play music, learning a new subject. These are just my ideas but you can come up with something to serve as a goal, and then look forward every day to accomplishing that goal. What we need is something to look forward to. If our world won’t change to meet our expectations, then we can make changes to ourselves which helps the world a little bit at a time.